Hurtful experiences have the ability to separate us from God, especially when pride is present. We may struggle to confront the truth in our current position, as depicted in the famous phrase from “A Few Good Men” (1992): “You can’t handle the truth!” This idea is illustrated by a personal example: after my marriage and a brief battle with depression, I believed I heard God’s call prompting me to apply for a ministry role in which I was already involved. When my application was rejected, I became enraged almost immediately. Despite overwhelming indicators to the contrary, I argued that it was the proper time, driven by my own worries. This distorted perspective, which was completely focused on my own pain, blinded me to the truth. Feeling abandoned by people closest to me, I wondered why they couldn’t see what seemed so clear to me.
God’s Surprising Plan: When we are even a little bit willing to cooperate with God’s will, He always has something better in store for us. In my situation, God used that time of adversity to birth a writing ministry that has lasted to this day. God generously guided me toward seeing the truth I formerly denied through my continuous commitment in active Christian ministry. He took use of the situation to show me a road I had never considered before. His patient and gracious kindness aided my healing by allowing me to use my gift of writing, which was enhanced by His Spirit.
Learning from Pain: During that period of pain, I was overwhelmed with resentment and unable to see the wider picture. God’s plan, however, emerged gradually, demonstrating that He always has something better in store for us. Even when we are unable to accept the truth at first, God’s grace works gently inside us, guiding us toward recognition and healing. In my situation, the pain I felt became the impetus for a writing ministry that far exceeded my wildest expectations.
Cooperation with Divine Will: When we experience pain, we must analyze our motivations and viewpoints. Our insistence on our own understanding is frequently fueled by pride, preventing us from aligning with God’s purpose. We allow God to transform our misery into a meaningful and purposeful journey by humbly surrendering our pride and being open to His instruction. While navigating through pain might be difficult, realizing God’s sovereignty and trusting His plan can result in extraordinary benefits beyond our wildest dreams.
Conclusion: Because of the presence of pride, hurt has the ability to lead us away from God. God’s transformational grace, on the other hand, can bring about unexpected rewards and healing when we remain open to divine instruction and renounce our pride. By accepting His plan and complying with His will, we realize that what appeared to be insurmountable pain can be transformed into a stepping stone towards a larger purpose. Let us remember that God’s love and wisdom are always available to us, even in our darkest hours, and that He can create beauty from the ashes of our sorrow.